How to be a Good Parent: 10 Tips + 35 More

How to be a Good Parent: 10 Tips + 35 More 

The Living Legend

Ahmad Javed Kamran Amiri

Dated: Sunday 3rd November 2019

Dear parents In order to educate your children in a good way, be sure to read the following 40 tips and practice these tips in your daily life:

01. Take Care of your child in every condition.

02. First of all respect your children in every situation.

03. Always give the gift to the girl first.

04. Play with your child; if you don’t have enough time then find some.

05. Greet with your child in a way so that he/she thought that he/she is a personality.

06. Give personality to your children.

07. Kiss your children. So there is a degree in heaven for every kissing.

08. Do not make fun of your child in their childish work. Don't tell them that they are doing things stupidly.

09. Don't overbid your child to do or to don’t; if you are doing like this they will find the dares and courage to disobey you when they became young.

10. Don't hit and punish your children just because they are crying; in some way their crying is to testify to God's oneness, to testify to the prophet (PBUH), and to pray for their parents.

11. Always keep your promise that you are making to them.

12. Make your children to pray in a lovely way not by punishment.

13. Don’t make your children helpless and weak by spying on them because spying makes children weak and helpless creatures.

14. Do not humiliate the child because a humiliate child will be so weak and scared.

15. Always pray for your children health and future. Especially fathers.

16. Gently give hints so that there is no barrier between parents and children.

17. If the child is respected at home, he or she will be less likely to disobey the parents' orders because respect for the child and being a good parent is one of the most important factors in building a child's personality.

18. Strengthen the faith in your child.

19. Avoid from childish wrestling and childish behavior with your child.

20. Educate the honesty to your child; behave at home in a way so that the children get used to the truth and avoid from lying.

21. Do not make your child to be scared / afraid because fear destroys the personality of the child and causes mental disorder.

22. A good parent/mentor is one who adjusts the child's wishes in the right way and with the right method.

23. Cuddling is one of the mental foods of a baby and should be fed enough of it.

24. Tell the child about the ugliness of sin and the hatred of the sinner.

25. Baby bed should be separated before the age of 6.

26. Hints are effective when their parents are their executors and agents. Note that children do not become the way that we want them to be, but they become the way that we are.

27. First distinguish order at home and outside for your child and then let them play at home freely.

28. Tolerate children's unexpected behaviors somewhat and advise them.

29. In reminding others not to praise him/her or compare anyone with him/her.

30. Inspire the child with many good concepts through storytelling; read the good and beautiful story and keep it out of the media and animation.

31. Being playful of a child at a young age indicates a great deal of wise in his adulthood.

32. Invite children from the age of 7 to pray that it will bring eternal peace to their soul and heart.

33- Teach your child the Holy Quran that looking at the Holy Quran and reading it will enhance the child's understanding and mind.

34- Avoid accusing children for lying.

35- Satisfy the child's curiosity with patience.

36- Never argue with your children.

37. Never argue with each other in front of your children.

38. Children are afraid death, especially parental death. Do not keep saying "God give me death" and don't make them scare of your death.

39. Discover and nurture your children's talents.

40. If your children are going things in wrong way, don’t ever shout on them but tell them wright and proper way of doing thing.

41. Neither neglect nor satisfy the child financially both are dangerous. Because doing such things can destroy their future.

42. The only point of hope and happiness for the child is the parent's affection.

43. Give freedom to the children suitable for their evolution and let them enjoy their life’s as the want but keep a keen eye on them.

44. Parenting is responsible for a child's upbringing and education.

45. Love your children as much as you can.